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Guiding change, building confidence


When Sexual Intimacy Starts to Feel Difficult or Sex Stops Being Fun in a Relationship – What’s Really Going On?
Most couples don’t talk about this… but sexual intimacy often changes in long-term relationships - In this blog, we explore some of the most common sex problems in a relationship and how psychosexual therapy can help couples understand what is happening and begin rebuilding sexual intimacy, closeness and connection.

Maria Konstantinelli - MA, MBACP, MNCPS(Acc.)
Mar 74 min read


Why Does a Rare Disease Diagnosis Affect Identity and Confidence? - #RareDiseaseDay
Why Does a Rare Disease Diagnosis Affect Identity and Confidence? - #RareDiseaseDay & exploring how counselling can help

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Feb 252 min read


A Solution Focused Approach - Supporting Behavioural Change Using Integrative Therapies
Change does not always require looking in to and exploring the past. Some people are concerned therapy is a long term commitment or requires weekly sessions which can be a financial burden and time consuming. A solution focused approach (SFT or SFBT) keeps attention on what is working, what is possible, and what keeps you moving forward. Read on to find out how using integrative therapies in a solution focused approach can encourage growth and reshape habits or behaviours.

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Feb 213 min read


Eating Disorders Awareness Week 2026: Understanding the Emotional Layers
Eating Disorders Awareness Week (23 February – 1 March 2026) is an important moment in the mental health calendar. Led by Beat, this year’s focus on community highlights something many people already sense: recovery rarely happens in isolation.
Eating disorders are complex psychological conditions that affect a person’s relationship with food, body image and often their sense of self. There are many forms of eating disorders and specialist treatment is essential for many p

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Feb 203 min read


When Valentine’s Day Brings Up More Than You Expected
For many people, Valentine’s Day isn’t upsetting in an obvious way. There’s no breakdown, no dramatic sense of loss. Instead, there’s a subtle shift. A quiet heaviness. A feeling that something is slightly off. What often surprises people is not that the day feels uncomfortable, but that it still does, even after years of telling themselves it shouldn’t matter. When that reaction shows up repeatedly, it’s usually worth paying attention to. Counselling can help make sense of t

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Feb 123 min read


Graduation Day
So this graduation is not just about a qualification. It is about permission. Permission to change direction. Permission to grow later than planned. Permission to succeed on your own timeline.

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Feb 61 min read


Separation Anxiety Disorder: Why Many Women and Girls Struggle in Silence
Why are women more affected by Separation Anxiety Disorder? There may be many reasons that are unique to you but can include, social expectations, caregiving roles and responsibility, and emotional conditioning can all play a role. Find out how counselling can help - get in touch to book a free initial consultation

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Jan 313 min read


The Ripple Effect - How Building A Better Relationship can Start With You
A relationship is about more than just two people. How we listen, communicate, and show up in one connection has a way of influencing every other relationship in our lives. When you start building a better relationship with yourself, it creates a ripple effect, making it easier to connect with others in a more open, confident, and honest way.
People often seek relationship support asking how do you fix a relationship. Individual relationship therapy can help you build stro

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Jan 213 min read


Attachment Style Therapy
Attachment-based therapy helps explain why certain situations feel more emotionally charged than others. Most of us developed patterns of connection long before we understood them, often in childhood. These early experiences shape what’s sometimes called an Internal Working Model—the quiet assumptions we hold about ourselves, other people and what it takes to feel safe in relationships.

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Nov 22, 20253 min read


Unlocking Change Through Psychotherapeutic Coaching
Sometimes we reach a point where we know we want things to be different, but we’re not sure how to get there. Maybe confidence has dipped, old patterns keep showing up, or life feels a bit stuck. Psychotherapeutic coaching sits in between therapy and personal development. It helps you understand the emotional roots of what’s holding you back while also giving you tools to move forward. It’s less about fixing what's “wrong” and more about helping you grow

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Nov 22, 20253 min read


Hidden Grief: Understanding the Impact of Early Miscarriage
Hidden Grief: Understanding the Impact of Early Miscarriage - The emotional pain that follows a miscarriage for men can manifest as anxiety and stress, interfering with everyday life and relationships. Counselling offers a safe and supportive environment for couples navigating the emotional aftermath of miscarriage. Here are a few ways counselling can support healing

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Nov 22, 20253 min read
Frequently asked questions
FAQ's
This section can be a helpful starting point if you’re unsure about therapy. It answers some common questions in a straightforward way, so you can get a sense of how we work, what to expect, and whether it feels like the right fit before making contact. If you want to get in touch click here(https://www.surreytalkingtherapy.co.uk/contact)
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