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Why Do I Find It Hard to Trust People?
Finding it hard to trust people doesn't always mean you are suspicious or unwilling to let others close. Sometimes caution develops from experiences that taught you relationships could be unpredictable, disappointing or unsafe. Understanding where that response comes from can help you decide when protection is useful and when it may be getting in the way. Counselling can help understand why and how to make the changes you want.

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Sep 65 min read


Relationship Arguments - Why Do Couples Keep Having the Same Disagreements?
Do you keep having the same argument with your partner, even when the subject seems to change? Repeated arguments are often less about the issue in front of you and more about the feelings underneath it. Understanding the pattern can help couples move away from blame and towards feeling heard and connected again.

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Aug 165 min read


Couples Therapy in Surrey for Communication Problems: When Can Therapy Help?
When communication problems keep leaving you and your partner stuck in the same arguments, couples therapy can offer somewhere to understand what is happening between you. This article looks specifically at seeking couples therapy in Surrey for communication difficulties, what relationship therapy involves and when getting support may be useful.

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Jul 264 min read


Why Do I Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns?
Do you ever find yourself wondering why your relationships seem to follow the same path, even when you desperately want things to be different? Repeating relationship patterns is more common than many people realise. Understanding where these patterns come from can help you move away from self-blame and towards healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Therapy can help you understand and change these patterns and lead a happier way of life.

Derek Flint - BSc : Dip. Couns. : PNCPS - Accred.
Jul 205 min read


Emotional Distance in Relationships: Why It Happens and How to Reconnect
Feeling emotionally distant from your partner doesn't always mean the relationship is over. Sometimes it develops so gradually that neither of you notices until the closeness you once shared feels difficult to find. Understanding how emotional distance develops is often the first step towards reconnecting.

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Jul 84 min read


Why Is Communication So Difficult in Relationships?
Many couples don't struggle because they have stopped caring about each other. They struggle because communication has become difficult. Understanding why this happens can help you move away from blame and towards more open, honest conversations. Relationship therapy can help improve communication and the quality of the partnership for everyone. Whether you are married, co-habiting or dating (or in another form of relationship) therapy can help.

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Jun 284 min read


Why Do I Feel Stuck in Life? Understanding Why and How Counselling Helps.
Why do I feel stuck in my life? Explore the patterns behind feeling stuck and how counselling can help you understand what’s going on and move forward.

Linda Bignell - FdA : MBACP
Apr 185 min read
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